Nauvoo-Day 2

Today we drove, and drove, and drove, and drove.

The only highlights we had were stopping to eat. We started out with a yummy breakfast at the motel. I love Belgian waffles. I think I had them everyday. I was impressed with the kids. They all got up and got ready in a timely manner.

We made it to Cadiz, Kentucky for lunch at Subway. There were a lot of restaurants together so some of the kids walked over to Wendy's. I thought the town was pronounced Cuh-diz so I asked the girl at the counter. She said it was Kay-dees. Who knew?

I guess the other highlight that did not involve food was getting stuck in rush hour traffic in St. Louis. Ugh! I remember St. Louis being so ugly before. It hasn't changed in two years. I just think it is the armpit of America. Brandon said the St. Louis temple was the deodorant. :)

Originally we thought we might make it in time to see the pageant tonight but this jam up put us behind.

We made it to the motel about 8:00. The boys were anxious to swim. We left them with their chaperone and the girls went across the street and found a Panera Bread. Sister Ingalls was excited because it was not there the last time she was there. I didn't care. I just wanted food. It was tasty.

When we got back to the hotel, some of us joined the boys in the pool. It was not fun until they left. Then we relaxed and enjoyed the pool and the Jacuzzi.

Nauvoo-Day 1

I lost my driver's license a while back. I knew it was my year for renewal so I didn't replace it, instead I sent off for my new one.

The Nauvoo trip came up quick and unexpected. I thought for sure I would have my new license by then. Today came and I still didn't have it. I thought well, Roxanne can just rent the van in her name and I can still drive. I have a valid license. I just didn't have it on me. When we got down to Orlando to rent the van they needed a copy of my license. I thought, "No big deal. I have one at home in my files from where I refinanced my house a couple of years ago." I got home and went through my files. No license! I call Sister Ingalls and tell her to go ahead without me. She says she will wait and she makes me promise I will go, even if I can't drive.

Brianna Carter was at our house hanging out before time to meet at the Ingalls. I
told her and Jensen that I wasn't going to be able to go. Brianna said, "Just go get a new license. My mom did it and it was sooo fast. No big deal." I thought to myself, "yeah what does she know about the DMV? She's just a teenager. She doesn't know all of the horror stories." I decided to take her advice anyway. I had no other option. I called first to see what I needed to bring:

A certified birth certificate. Where's mine? Oh, in my family history stuff.

Certified marriage license. Got it! It was in my "Important Papers" file.

Social Security Card. Got it.

Two pieces of mail with my name on it. I grabbed the Ensign and a piece of junk mail. I get to the DMV and the junk mail is not valid. It has to be a bill or something more important than junk mail.

Me: What!?! That's not what the lady on the phone said.

DMV: I'm sorry I was at lunch.

Me:(in my mind)I know that I have to be nice to this lady because her son is going to be one of my students next year. I tell her that thinking maybe I could butter her up. No go.

DMV: I'm sorry. It's because of all of the Privacy Acts.

Me: (in my mind. Stupid terrorists) I know. It's ok.

DMV: How about a Voter's Registration?

Me: yes! I have that.

DMV: Ok, one more thing. Vehicle Registration?

Me: Ugh! Mine is at home on the table! Our car is in the shop and I have my mom's car.

DMV: check stub?

Me: Ugh! (the ugh's are always silent) I cleaned out my purse because I'm going on vacation.

DMV: I'm so sorry. Maybe the school board could fax one over.

Me: yeah, no. I could get home and get back faster thatn that could happen. (In my mind. Duh! It's another government agency) It's ok. I'll be right back.

DMV: Ok, I'll make you an appointment in case it's busy when you get back.

Me: Ok, thank you so much. (In my mind, "See the DMV can be a happy, helpful place")

My prayer on the way home. "Please God don't let me lose my cool. Let me remain calm. Let me not kill anyone. After all, this is my fault. Don't let everyone hate me for being late. I'm already 45 minutes late.)

Race home. Grab Vehicle Registration. Two pieces of mail. One from the IRS (if they know where I live then everyone does). Grab the whole bill basket. That should do it.

Go back and get my licesnse. Done! I chit-chat with the lady about her son and give her some tips about his education. Hopefully, when we meet at meetings she won't cower in the corner and scream "There's that crazy lady!" I really did a good job at containing myself.

I stop by my mother's to fax it to the rental company. I get to the Ingalls and we leave. (An hour and a half late)

After all of that, I feel that the rest of the day was uneventful.

We stopped in Cordele, Georgia for dinner. We drive to Cartersville, Georgia for the night. The motel was new and beautiful. Some of the kids wanted to stay there the whole time. We were disappointed because we didn't make it further. I feel like an idiot because it was my fault.

Guess what arrives in the mail the next day? That's right! My driver's license. Ugh! (not silent)

Free Food

For the second year in a row we have humiliated ourselves by dressing in cow costumes and schlepping to Chic-fil-A for free food. We always have a good time and everyone participates. This year Lew was miserable because he is going on his third week of fighting a kidney stone. He was a trooper though because he wanted to eat. We recruited the Garretts and they met us there. Free food is always tastier.

 

 

Katie Ghersi

Jensen met Katie Ghersi at the birthday party of a mutual friend. They were talking about their respective summer camps. Katie said, "We do this at my camp". Jensen said, "We do that at my camp". Katie said, "We do this at my camp." Jensen said, "Me too!" It wasn't long before they figured out that they were both Mormon. Katie's family had moved to the area and hadn't been able to make it to church yet. Jensen invited her to ride with us and they have been great friends since. We, I say me, because I was in the Young Women's program at the time, had great times traveling to the church in Apopka every Wednesday.

Jensen wanted to have one last hurrah with Katie before she moves to Oviedo so she spent the night. I found out a secret about Katie. That girl has got a set of pipes. She and Jensen were in her room and having a sing-a-long and wow! I told her mom and her mom said that she doesn't like to sing in public. Well she should! I hope they have a chorus program at the high school where she is going. She needs to develop that talent.

The next day we went to Rock Springs. I forget how much I love Rock Springs. We went frequently when I was a young'un. I went there for Senior Skip Day. My best friend's friend had an old beater car and we all piled in and went. It was a lot of fun.

Danette and I used to take the kids there a lot when I had my daycare. It's nice because it has a graduated walk-in beach area for the little ones. They could swim without much assistance from us. There are two parts of the river, the rocky part, thus the name, and the clear part. The older, braver kids can go down the rocky part and we would take the little ones in their floats down the clear side. The older kids also like to look for sharks teeth or arrowheads.

Next to the beach, I think springs are my favorite body of water. I'd like to visit all of the springs in Florida. I should put that on my bucket list.

We had a great time with Katie and we are sure going to miss her. She's not going too far away so we will have to go kidnap her for the weekend.

Girls Night In!

Tonight at Young Women's the moms and the yw played a game similar to the Newlywed Game. This is what I found out about Jensen.

1. Her favorite food is cornbread, as in Grandma's. I guessed Chicken Alfredo.
2. Her favorite candy is Starbursts...I guessed Baby Bottle Pops.
3. If she had to cook dinner, she would make Mac N' Cheese... I guessed Pizza Rolls.
4. Her least favorite chore is doing the dishes. I got this one right! Everyone in this house hates doing dishes!
5. Her dream car is a punch buggy (VW), painted like a Bumble Bee. I got this one right!
6. He favorite place to shop is CVS...I guessed Kohl's because I was thinking clothes shopping. My favorite place is also CVS so I am glad we can enjoy that together.
7. The place she most wants to go is to sleep...I put the beach because before we answered she said that we wanted to go to the same place. I was confused. I didn't think she wanted to go to the beach because of the whole jellyfish incident. The place she guessed for me was to sleep at the beach. I guess to sleep is the place we both want to go. LOL!

I know a lot of her likes and dislikes I just don't know her favorites. I think it is hard to pin down favorites, there are so many choices. I also think favorites can change.

For the second game, we poured ourselves some M & M's out of a cup. However many we chose is how many nice things we had to say about our teammate. I chose 21 M & M's. We only got to share 3 things but here is my list of things I like/admire/love about Jensen.

1. She is funny. Oh man, she is funny. This is a requirement for living in our house, so she gets to stay. She has learned the humor skill very well.
2. She is a good friend. I've seen her interact with her friends and she loves and cares about them.
3. Jensen loves the gospel. She is always eager to learn and do what is right.
4. Jensen is smart. She does well at school. For 8th grade she earned a high school credit in science.
5. She is cute and beautiful. Sometimes I just look at her and am amazed at how beautiful she is.
6. Jensen is a mad trombone player. I am impressed that she picked the trombone to play and she does it very well.
7. Jensen sings very well. She won't sing in public but when she is at home, she belts it out.
8. Jensen has a sense of style. She puts her outfits together and they are cute and modest.
9. Jensen is a good sister. She loves her sister Madison and her brother Parker very much. She gets along well with both of them.
10. She is very loving. She still lets her snuggle with her at night and still gives us kisses good-bye.
11. She is very organized. I'll come home and the linen closet will be cleaned and organized.
12. She likes to clean, except dishes. One year for Christmas she wanted a cleaning cart. Santa didn't get it for her because there were other things to get that year and he didn't think she was serious. He thought it was just a phase. She expressed her disappointment and asked for it again the next year. Santa obliged.
13. Jensen loves all animals. If mother would let her she would bring home all of the strays. For her 7th birthday, she took her money and adopted Daisy from the Cat Protection Society. It didn't matter that Daisy had a bum eye. We turned it into something positive and said it was magical.
14. Jensen loves babies. If mother would let her she would bring home all of the strays. When I help out with Daniel Higley at church, Jensen laughs the whole time. He's so cute.
15. She is thoughtful. She knows just the right thing to say or do to make your day better.
16. She is creative. She likes all craft projects and does them well. Her specialty is the sculpy clay.
17. Jensen is a great missionary. She's not afraid of who she is. She does it quietly by her example but she also opens her mouth and invites her friends to church. All of her non-member friends know the church she belongs to and I think every single one of them hasbeen to church with her.
18. Adventurous. Jensen likes to try new things, go new places.
19. Jensen loves to read. I love that she loves to read because I love to read.
20. Laugh. You might think this is the same as #1 but it's not. Jensen loves to laugh. She does not have to be the only one who is funny. If you are funny, she will laugh at you also.
21. Obedient. Jensen always does what we ask her to do. Not perfectly but she is really agreeable and will eventually do as asked.
    

I'm glad I got to spend the evening with Jensen and get to know her better. I'm so blessed to have her as a daughter.

Literally, Great Niece and Nephew

I got to spend a few hours today with the greatest niece, Skye, and the greatest nephew, Cole. We played in the kiddie pool for a while and then Cole fell fast asleep. Ah! The life of luxury. Skye, Jensen and I watched, "How the Grinch Stole Christmas". Not really the season, but Skye had never seen it. I guess we could call it Christmas in July.

Skye is so smart. She read the title on the box and said she sounded it out. She said that when there was an "e" on the end of the word then that made it something. I said, "yeah it gives it the long "O" sound." She said, "yeah that." So smart that she knows those rules already and only a kindergarten graduate.

Their mom has just returned to school to get her degree in child psychology. I'm so proud of Dr. Larkin. Positive Affirmations. I know she will be successful.

Freedom

Jerry Leslie Sims

If you've read my other blogs, you know that I am not a huge fan of holidays, at least not the commercialism part. We didn't go to fireworks or to a parade or have a cookout but I do meditate in my heart the gratitude that I have for the American soldier. I am deeply thankful for their fight for our country and their fight against injustices brought to people of other nations. I am deeply thankful for all of the freedoms I enjoy.


My uncle recently joined Facebook and luckily has posted a picture of himself when he was a soldier in South VietNam 1971-1972. Thanks Uncle Jerry!